There are many things that need to happen first.
- Get a job in the Kitchener area
- Have him ask me
- Decide that it is the right time to move in
- Talk with my parents about it
- Talk with his parents about it
- Discuss where to live
- Finalize furniture placement/sell unneeded furniture
If he wants me to move into his current house, this needs to happen:
- Discuss changing the house to suit us.
- Find the money to make those changes
- Discuss the current/future roommate situation
I'm actually excited about the prospect of moving. I think I'd be more excited about going and looking at places for us to live together. His house might work for us for a little while but we would not be happy there for a long while. I can see us in a three story house with a modernized flair. A large bedroom with an en suite bathroom - stand up shower AND a soaker tub. A walk in closet. At least one extra bedroom, if not two. A backyard with grass and a deck, maybe a little garden that I can plant flowers in. An open concept kitchen with an island. A basement with a bathroom.
Ah to dream, right?
Concern #1, prep the parents so that IF I get a job there and IF he asks me to move in and IF we decide that it is the right time, there will be less stress/questions. Cause we all know I don't deal with change well when everything is going right in my life, I can only imagine how upset I'll be if I don't have peace in other aspects of my life.
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