Monday, April 05, 2010

There's something comfortable about the thought. Something scary. Something happy and something worrying.

There are many things that need to happen first.
  1. Get a job in the Kitchener area
  2. Have him ask me
  3. Decide that it is the right time to move in
  4. Talk with my parents about it
  5. Talk with his parents about it
  6. Discuss where to live
  7. Finalize furniture placement/sell unneeded furniture

If he wants me to move into his current house, this needs to happen:

  1. Discuss changing the house to suit us.
  2. Find the money to make those changes
  3. Discuss the current/future roommate situation

I'm actually excited about the prospect of moving. I think I'd be more excited about going and looking at places for us to live together. His house might work for us for a little while but we would not be happy there for a long while. I can see us in a three story house with a modernized flair. A large bedroom with an en suite bathroom - stand up shower AND a soaker tub. A walk in closet. At least one extra bedroom, if not two. A backyard with grass and a deck, maybe a little garden that I can plant flowers in. An open concept kitchen with an island. A basement with a bathroom.

Ah to dream, right?

Concern #1, prep the parents so that IF I get a job there and IF he asks me to move in and IF we decide that it is the right time, there will be less stress/questions. Cause we all know I don't deal with change well when everything is going right in my life, I can only imagine how upset I'll be if I don't have peace in other aspects of my life.

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