Christmas Holidays

Working in retail, it's hard not to notice changes between customers and the general attitudes of customers. Some days it seems like every customer is out to trash the store and your constantly following behind a person to pick the clothes they throw on the floor up. Other days it seems like every customer is in a bad mood and is only creating problems. The holidays seem to bring out certian characteristics in people. From my experiences, people are more apt to give warm wishes, and are more understanding if there are lines. I can't even count the amount of times somebody at my register told me they appreciated how hard I was working and some even warned me to slow down or else I'd burn myself out. Little did they know, I'm a seasoned vet when it comes to the Christmas rush! At the same time, I have never seen so many lost men wandering around the store. Every day, probably every hour, I was asked by a man to hold up a sweater or pair of pants to see if it would look nice on his wife/girlfriend/mistress/daughter ect.
I just believe that although everybody is running around trying to finish their lists, the general attitude in the store is a happier one. I think this relates to society in general. Everybody is in a better mood towards the holidays because they have something to look forward to. What happens when the holidays are over?

This theme of kindness, I've noticed in other areas of my life. This holiday break has proven many things to me. Some friendships that were broken are now slowly being repaired. I think that if I was home for any other reason, the initial contact and olive branch would not have been extended. Also, I realized the concept of family. I never would have thought that my family would include those who are not blood related. Everyday that I am "home" I am missing my other home and family even more.

I guess it must be the magic of the holiday season, but although all of this kindness in theory is good, I'd much rather have life return to normal!
With that said, I hope everybody is well, and that your enjoying your family time. On that note, for those who know what is going on, Bob is out of the hospital finally and is at home recouperating. He's spending alot of time sleeping, but he did ask for a cheeseburger the other night so I guess he's feeling better!
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!